What self-settling really means
It is not a pass/fail skill. It can look different at bedtime, naps and night wakings, and it develops gradually.
When to encourage it
Choose a time when your baby is well, reasonably settled and your expectations match their age. Newborns need plenty of comfort and help to settle.
How to make it gentler
Keep one strong soothing element while reducing another, instead of removing everything at once.
What's affecting your baby's sleep?
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Frequently asked questions
At what age can babies self-settle?
There is no single age. Maturity, temperament and family priorities matter.
Do I have to let my baby cry?
No. Gentle changes can still involve protest, but they do not require abandoning your baby.
Why can my baby do it at night but not for naps?
Day sleep often matures later and is more sensitive to timing.